WHY DO I GET SO UPSET WITH MY PARTNER

Q: I need some relationship help. While I love my husband with all my heart, sometimes it's just so frustrating being married to him. When I feel that he's ignoring me, I get so upset, and he's usually surprised by the intensity of my reaction. Why do I get so upset with him? ~Lynn, Carlsbad CA

A: Thanks for the question, Lynn. Here are some thoughts that might help shed light on your experience:

It is extremely distressing to feel as if your words and actions have no impact (or no longer matter) to your spouse/partner�to think that someone whom you love deeply is no longer engaged fully in the relationship or interested in what's important to you can be extremely painful.

When you feel like your spouse/partner is not being responsive to you (and to your needs), two outcomes become likely:

1. Initially, you may "up the ante" in order to have some kind of impact on your spouse/partner-- this might involve yelling, becoming more provocative, elevating your emotional responses, acting in ways that are uncharacteristic for you (in attachment literature these types of reactions are called "protest" behaviors�your protests are a reflection of losing something extremely important to you; this can be the love of your partner, the security of your relationship, or both).

Is it fair to say that at some point most of us would react negatively (protest) if we perceived our spouse/partner to be unavailable and unresponsive to our needs?

2. When you feel ignored for extended periods of time, your sense of despair can turn into feelings of hopelessness�you give up on trying to engage your spouse/partner and begin to retreat (this is a self-protective behavior�in essence, you're cutting your loses). This may take the form of indifference, withdrawal behaviors, and disengaging from the relationship in general (and the responsibilities that are a part of the relationship).

Typically a protest reaction isn't random: Protest behaviors (getting really upset when your partner isn't responding in predictable ways that make you feel secure in the relationship) occur in a particular context; and the triggering event is usually feeling anxious about losing the security of your relationship.

Relationship Help: Let's break down this reaction:

An unresponsive/disengaged/uninterested partner =>

triggers increased anxiety and worry in the other partner, who then =>

attempts to reengage the unresponsive partner (for example, "We need to talk," or "What's wrong?") =>

and if the other partner is still not responsive, protest behaviors are triggered.

Your protest behaviors (whether your protest behaviors are perceived as nagging, pestering, yelling, or some kind of increased emotionality like anger) are in effect attempts to try and correct the problem�ideally it's an attention-grabbing reaction that will let your spouse know that something is wrong that needs fixing.

Think of protest behaviors as an alarm sounding in an effort to grab your partner's attention to what needs to be addressed.

Marital/relationship problems can arise when these temporary reactions (feeling one's spouse/partner is unconcerned and unresponsive) are not addressed and become ingrained patterns.

I hope this sheds some light on why you seem to get so upset with your spouse (or why we all get upset with our spouse/partner at times). Whenever we allow a loved one special access to our hearts, feeling ignored by this person is going to feel like a major deal.

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TOP 9 SIGNS YOUR SPOUSE IS CHEATING

You have a sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach, something is not right but you can't quite figure out what that feeling is about. Your spouse has become distant, he/she is working late on

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NEW APPLE INGREDIENT DISCOVERY KEEPS MUSCLE STRONG

Natural Component of Apple Peels Found To Help Prevent Muscle Weakening

In search of an effective method to prevent muscle wasting that comes with illness and aging, researchers have located a natural compound that is very promising.

The findings reported in the June issue of Cell Metabolism (a Cell Press publication), identify a natural component of apple peels known as Ursolic Acid as a promising newnutritional therapy for the widespread and debilitating condition that affects nearly everyone at one time or another.

"Muscle wasting is a frequent companion of illness and aging," explained researchers from The University of Iowa, Iowa City. "It prolongs hospitalization, delays recoveries and in some cases prevents people going back home. It isn't well understood and there is no medicine for it."

The research team first looked at what happens to gene activity in muscles under conditions that promote weakening. Those studies turned up 63 genes that change in response to fasting in both people and mice and another 29 that shift their expression in the muscles of both people who are fasting and those with spinal cord injury. Comparison of those gene expression signatures to the signatures of cells treated with more than 1300 bio-active small molecules led them to ursolic acid as a compound with effects that might counteract those of atrophy.

"Ursolic Acid is an interesting natural compound," they said. "It's part of a normal diet as a component of apple peels. They always say that an apple a day keeps the doctor away..."

The researchers next gave Ursolic Acid to fasted laboratory subjects. Those experiments showed that ursolic acid could protect against muscle weakening as predicted. When ursolic acid was added to the food of normal subjects for a period of weeks, their muscles grew. Those effects were traced back to enhanced insulin signaling in muscle and to corrections in the gene signatures linked to atrophy.

The subjects given ursolic acid also became leaner and had lower blood levels of glucose, cholesterol and triglycerides. The findings therefore suggest that ursolic acid may be responsible for some of the overall benefits of healthy eating.

"We know if you eat a balanced diet like mom told us to eat you get this material," the researchers explained "People who eat junk food don't get this."

It is not yet clear whether the findings will translate to human patients, but the goal now is to "figure out if this can help people." If so, they don't yet know whether Ursolic Acid at levels that might be consumed as part of a normal diet might or might not be enough.

Journal Reference:

mRNA Expression Signatures of Human Skeletal Muscle Atrophy Identify a Natural Compound that Increases Muscle Mass. Cell Metabolism
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Communication is a vital part of our lives: a typical day involves many interactions between ourselves, our work colleagues and clients, our children, our friends, our ex's, future relationships, etc. This interaction takes place where we live, work, relax, socialize and wherever we perform routine tasks.

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When individuals talk about premature ejaculation medication, medicines like Viagra come to mind. But then these medicines mainly treat impotence. Viagra along with other similar medicines like Cialis and Levitra and are clinically secure and efficient treatment for impotence.

Then again, none of these medications - Viagra, Levitra or Cialis are indicated or confirmed to prevent premature ejaculation - a typical sexual issue that causes males to ejaculate sooner than both he or his companion would wish. Premature ejaculation can be frustrating for each partners and might even endanger their relationship if a man ejaculates previously than needed on a normal foundation.

Although Viagra, Cialis and Levitra has not been shown to stop premature ejaculation, some men have reported that these medicines will assist stop ejaculation sooner than desired. While you will find a number of elements that could cause premature ejaculation. It was mentioned that impotence can lead to premature ejaculation.

Impotence, is really a various tale compared to premature ejaculation. Impotence, also known as impotence is a condition exactly where a man with a consistent inability to achieve or preserve an erect penis is long enough to complete intercourse. Popular medicines like Viagra impotence treatment, Cialis and Levitra are very helpful in the treatment of men suffering from impotence. Countless males with impotence within the globe have successfully used Viagra, Cialis or Levitra to improve their sex lives. Source: erectile dysfunction remedies

Males with erectile problems are the majority of the time attempting to reach orgasm inside a hurry because they're afraid of losing an erection before intercourse is done, deeply disturbed, these men ejaculate faster than hoped. In these instances, treatment of impotence medicines like Viagra, Cialis or Levitra may thus help prevent premature ejaculation.

Males who have problems with premature ejaculation, although not impotence ought to not use Viagra, Cialis or Levitra. Following the advice of a doctor, they can make use of lotions and gels that prevents a guy to ejaculate prematurely. Additionally, they can engage in sex treatment and discover skills which will assist preserve an erection and stop premature ejaculation.

A new drug, known as dapoxetine Priligy is also obtainable in some countries for your treatment of premature ejaculation, and it would be advisable to seek advice from your doctor for much more guidance.

It could consequently be said that even when Viagra can't directly assist within the therapy of premature ejaculation, can help men preserve an erection long sufficient to total sexual activity, and therefore assist remove the anxiousness of losing his erection - the trigger of premature ejaculation in most males. This really is what most men believe as a defense mechanism.

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IMPOTENCE!!!!!A MAN WORST NIGHTMARE ARTICLE BY MYFREEDOMINC.BLOGSPOT.COM

Impotence, also known as erectile dysfunction (ED) is a man�s inability to achieve or maintain an erection. This is a condition that is rarely talked about amongst men but can have a devastating effect on a man�s confidence and self-esteem. This can subsequently lead to depression which only serves to aggravate the condition further. Unfortunately, impotence is a very common problem and affects over 2 million men in the UK alone. In fact, over half the male population over the age of 40 will suffer from some form of impotence at some stage. Despite these statistics, only a small number of men, about 10%, will seek medical assistance due mainly to feelings of embarrassment. Many medical doctors will prescribe chemicalised drugs, such as the blue pills to combat impotence. These are of course, not without their side effects.

Most young men in their 20�s or early 30�s dismiss erectile dysfunction as something that will never happen to them. Yet ED is a condition that can be caused by a number of factors.

Psychological

This is often the layman�s reason for the number one cause of impotence. Yet according to studies, psychological factors account for less than 20% of impotence in men. It is the subsequent feeling of depression and anxiety after one incident of impotence that can compound any underlining medical condition and worsen the problem.

High Blood Pressure

Aside from psychological factors, physical condition can also precipitate impotence. It is well documented that high blood pressure and high level of cholesterol can lead to a high risk of impotence. This is due to the copious amount of pressure on the blood vessels that causes damage to the arteries of the penis severely restricting the flow of blood to the penis resulting in an ineffective erection.

Stress and Fatigue

This one falls into the category of psychological. Although some men find stress to be a motivator, too much stress and fatigue can lead to erectile dysfunction. Stress can be in the form of financial, sexual, work or relationship and this can cause erectile problems. Fatigue is normally the result of stress that can zap a person�s physical and mental energy. Once the cause of stress or fatigue is resolved, then any erectile challenges should also be resolved.

Excess Weight

Over weight is seen as a contributory factor to increased level of impotence. Excessive fat blocks the arteries in the penis which restrict the flow of blood to the penis resulting in difficulty in

achieving or maintaining an erection.

Strokes

Most men who suffered strokes normally complain of lack of sexual desire and erection problems. It is important that stroke sufferers should immediately seek medical advice upon any indication of any erectile dysfunction whatsoever. Erectile problems after a stroke are not normally permanent.

Treatment

Impotence is a very real and serious concern for the majority of men at some stage in their life. The causes range from the psychological, to the physical such as high blood pressure. There are preventative actions that one can take such as regular exercise, adequate sleep, reducing levels of stress and consulting your doctor as soon as possible.

Most causes of impotence can be identified and treated. Many medical doctors will prescribe the little blue pill or other similar ED drugs to treat impotence. Unfortunately, these are not without side effects. So it is not surprising that millions of men are turning to 100% naturally herbal alternatives such as Maxidus to treat erectile dysfunction.

As natural herbs have no side effects, the benefits are unsurpassable such as increase in energy, libido boosting and treatment of impotence. So, don�t allow impotence to become your nightmare!

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